Cat, You handled that conversation with your H well. I like the idea of writing down goals. And as for hte C pushing him, the C is trying to push your H's buttons. It's part of gettting to the root of things. So, I don't see that as a bad thing.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
