I have not posted much lately as there is little going on. W it apears is on an emotional rollercoaster from hell. A summary of last few days ;
Wednesday : Happy and cheerful , offered to come over and cook for kids Thursday night as I was going out ( I had organised but let her come over as she seemed to want to ).
Thursday Night , I get home and W's in the worst mood I have seen her for a long time. I sat and gave her the opportunity to tell me what was on her mind but she didnt open up , I just went about things as usual. Later I sent a quick txt thanking her for coming over and telling her it was appreciated. The reply I got was very abrasive had me thinking F...you I was just being nice. I did not reply
Late Friday I had to communicate with her re D so sent a quick txt. Surprisingly I got an appology for her behaviour the night before ,I txt back "its OK I understand" then she phoned all happy and chatty.
Saturday Night she comes to pick up D and is Gloomy again ( not as bad as thursday though).
So I would guess she is dealing with all sorts of emotions and I feel like a spectator which is probably a good place to be.
I have thought a lot about what SD is saying re the LBS being the eventual WAS. My take on that is I am going to keep the door open and if W can show that she is making the sort of changes that need to be made ( much like a lot of us here have done ) then I will be open to the prospect of a reconciliation. In saying that I cant see much evidence of that yet and I am not sure if she is capable of doing it.
