morgan-- I know of the pull...that is why I don't have any pics of H around (the kids have some in their rooms), no tapes, not even looking forward to the XMas stuff that you tackled (but SO smart to do early--I will do that with our ornaments, the only thing that should be way hard).
I can't be around him, because it is like the last year disappears from my memory, and it is just H, the man who I used to know and love. At least it is getting a bit better if we have to talk briefly on the phone. I know my limitations, though...I don't plan on being alone with him for a very long time.