hmmm...interesting development about the guys nice to have 3 types. may I mention right off the bat, btw, that there are plenty of well off/white collar guys who are the scum of the earth, too, so don't rule out your favored type just because your H went nuts.
honestly, i'd see all 3. now, I am not someone who has a lot of dating experience (was the relationship queen, I don't juggle well). still, if there was any time in your life that seeing a few different people would be a good thing, now would be it. see what's out there. explore. and most importantly, report back!
for me, yeah, the living with the widowed mother thing would bug me, at least long term. and actually, it would depend on what he was like...norman bates type, well, but if it means for an interesting evening out, hey, why not? if it doesn't work out with him, he may know someone else. kind of like dating networking. lol.
I am not ready yet, but wow, when I am, hope I have such a selection. well, 2 of my type (different than yours, although wow, bekham sounds pretty hot at least, except for the deoderant thing...makes me think of matthew maconahey) and one wild card isn't a bad idea. not sure where I will meet them, though. but I'm guessing when I'm ready, well, they'll find me. I think your being more open/smiley and such is helping on that front. me, well, I'm pretty guarded still.
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