Thanks mcc-xfer. I appreciate your insight and i have gone dark. But hard doesn't even begin to describe it. She's been telling people that the OP is nothing like me and that it's "all good". I can't believe she could say that to people. I swear it's like we were in two different relationships to hear her talk....
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
