As enlightened it may be to be open-minded and accepting of all different ways of doing things, at a certain point in any decision making process, you have to pick one way and go with it. Do not fear that by choosing route you are negating all the others. Today, narrow down your options -- and keep in mind that there's no such thing as 'right' or 'wrong' in this instance. It's just a matter of figuring out what is 'right' for you. People will respect your choice -- they'll have to.
Notice what I high lighted
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
The way you respect other people's privacy is admirable, but it could be limiting your opportunities. Don't be afraid to talk to the people around you about getting what you want -- they're there to help you get things started. Managing your finances is a task that is making its way back onto the agenda big time, and you could get some fresh ideas from some surprising sources today.
there ya go yoyo,
Oh by the way the other "lady" from work wants to go for "happy hour" after work with me. Don't get all excited she is married. If I ever do stray IT WILL NOT BE WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Daily Extended Forecast for November 09, 2007 Provided by Astrology.com Daily Teen Forecast
It is only natural that a past relationship would enter your mind as you embark upon a new one -- the similarities and the contrasts are just as striking. But are you letting the past cast too heavy a shadow over your present? You have to see this person for who they are, not for who they are not. Your role in a partnership is something you have to be willing to adjust right now. To keep things progressing, you might have to start being more forceful than you usually are.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
It is only natural that a past relationship would enter your mind as you embark upon a new one -- the similarities and the contrasts are just as striking. But are you letting the past cast too heavy a shadow over your present? You have to see this person for who they are, not for who they are not. Your role in a partnership is something you have to be willing to adjust right now. To keep things progressing, you might have to start being more forceful than you usually are.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hey H - I'm trying to catch up on everyone who's going to Sonoma just so I can get an idea of everyone's stories and such.
Not that we have to talk about our sitches at all! That's half the fun is NOT talking about it for awhile .
Look forward to meeting you!!
Don't be afraid... we're all normal.. (insert evil laugh here).
But seriously wanted to share, last Spring I went to a DB meeting down in San Diego. Rented a house with 3 other ladies, drove 12 hours to meet people I'd never even talked to on the phone.. and had a wonderful time! Nervous as heck driving down though, so I know what you mean.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Yes I am a little nervous. But excited at the same time. Don't know what I am going to tell my "room mate" yet if anything. I do have the calendar blocked out that weekend and informed my sister not to have my Mom's b-day party that wek end. Debating on getting a place there or just comming back home at night. I don't have a time share in Sonoma. (but do in Vegas). I think the hardest part is trying to remember everyones Real names.
Hope to meet ya soon.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Yeah, I totally know what you mean - it's a real mixture of emotions I think. Tough to know what to tell them. I am thinking of just vaguely "I'll be gone for the weekend." We barely share plans anymore but we do tell each other if we'll be gone overnight, so I'm basing it on that (and then again, who knows what'll change in a month, right?).
Hmmm.. tough choice on whether to stay or not. I guess it depends on if you want to see other stuff in Sonoma, and if you want to make a whole weekend getaway out of it. Heck I've stayed in a motel in my own town before and it's sometimes just different enough to be a nice break. Definitely ups the $$ though.
On the real names - haha well.. at least you should have no trouble with mine.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
