OK More gossip.

I know this is off DB but I kind of want to gossip about which man I might want to have my first friendly date with this month.

Bachelor #1- Comes from a very wealthy family. Sister is a neighbour of mine. Has two kids and is divorced. Tall. Well traveled. Cute smile. Interesting. Like country music! OMG! But also has a punk streak in him. The date would be his mother's 60th Birthday party catered at a vineyard. That sounds so sweet. He is also my age.

Bachelor #2- Shorter like my H. Chef and musician. I am so attracted to this one. 10 years younger! Yikes! First date would be a concert next week. Yikes again! Too soon? Ok this guy looks like Justin Timberlake. Not rich at all.

Bachelor #3- Most poor of all but very accomplished filmmaker and director. Plus looks like Beckham. Does not wear deodorant so that is a little too bohemian. Will probably always live with widowed mother. Is that sweet or crazy? This one would drive my H most crazy because he is a Sundance Winner and may be up for an Oscar next year. But he has no money because he works on documentary production. First date would be a group date for his friend's film premiere. Fun.

One or all three? They are all too nice to juggle. I am leaning toward #2. My BFF said he was too pasty. My other BFF said that he would be the best choice because of no baggage with a young musician, just fun. Is that wrong?

It is funny how that whole harem thing works. When it rains it pours. I guess people are just lonely and want to be in couples. I feel so much pressure to date. I have been alone for 8 months now and I am starting to stir a little. I almost fantasized about getting a sympathy session from my H but H would never cheat on his beloved little OW. Although Iknow my H has it in his heart for me still. I can sense it but H is so hurt and stubborn and frankly, crazy.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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