I am so glad you made it through all the legal stuff!! And how great to have your family around you afterwards.
We started about the same time, but my D was final a little over a year ago. Take the time you need, it being official is different than it being in limbo.
You have the best assets of your marriage, the respect and relationship of your children and family. I do not know how my X justifies his choices when he sees what a strained and superficial relationship he has with his children.
I am no longer angry at him, but truely feel pity for him because he has become a very angry, lonely old man.
I wish you nothing but the best in your future. I love the quote on card you gave your X.
