I don't know if reading your thread inspired me but after W set up her little "office" in D room that moved out I started thinking that I HAD NO ME space. So I have started moveing things around the way I WANT THEM in my (our) bedroom. (W sleeps in son's room, whole nother story). And re-did the "office" we once shared.
feels good puting something in YOUR house and not having to ask your spouse "what do your think? is it ok?"
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know