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First, congrats on the job find. Wasn't that the first part of your journey? As I recall, that was one of your wife's biggest complaints, or at least that's what she said. That should be a great positive boost for you, and should re-focus a lot of your thoughts. It's not Iraq, but it will do!

Ahh..the holidays. Yes, it is that time of year. I think you do your best to make it happy for your kids. easier said than done, but it's what you have to do.