Hi HopeFF,

Truth be told there are endless OG's. She's in the market looking for a new husband. It always reminds me of when I was a child and the boy scout troop had a Christmas grab bag. All the toys in there were cheap. But they were wrapped real pretty. I got to pick one cuz my brother was a boy scout. Anyway, everytime I picked a present, I was really happy with it until I unwrapped it, and realized it was a cheap toy. Then I wanted to pick from the grab bag again. I always thought if I could just pick again, I'd get a better gift. That's the way a lot of people are with spouses. They think they picked wrong, and if they pick again they will do SO much better this time.

That's why so many 2nd marriages fail. Because the people in them don't realize there are no perfect people or perfect relationships. That you have to create the relationship, and it's as good as you make it.