Thanks LWB, Too tired to go back out. Actually I should have cause now I'm just wandering around this dark house trying to make sense of things.
I need a sanity check here....
Before I say anything, just hit me with a 2x4 cause I snooped.
If anyone is familiar with my sitch, you know that there is already a confirmed PA with OG that has supposedly ended. My W is full bore with divorce at this point and I am left wondering why. Why has she gone from wanting to work things out to absolutely certain D is the right answer. So I've been looking for answers to my question and have checked her cell phone. Checked her phone and there are some text messages to some person that I am not familiar with. These are from two days ago.
Here's the dialog: H: "Good time with the gals?" W went out with friends the night before. W: "Yes it was how was your evening" H: "Boring I can think of better things" If that isn't a sexual inuendo, I don't know what is... W: "You in the office yet" H: "Si"
There are more from today, but his responses to her texts are deleted. Hmmmm. Wonder why they would need to get deleted.
I'm dumbfounded. W had found her soulmate and lost all hope for us being able to rebuild. Unable to work on us because of this connection with OG. Now the OG is out of the picture and there is potentially ANOTHER OG?????