H - Thanks for your support! The kids will be with me at Thanksgiving, along with her whole family. This is hard for her because she has a huge button re feeling rejected or excluded. She already decided to go on a trip with OM during that time, apparently to meet his family in Texas.
At Christmas, she gets the kids. However, she has planned another trip, to Hawaii, with OM from 12/19 to 12/23 (how romantic). Well, her family gathering this year happens to be on the 23rd, so she won't be making that one either. Again, I'll be there with the kids and she will be missing. She created the situation but she won't own the results of her actions. She thinks it's a conspiracy to isolate her. Unfortunately, she is huddling closer to the OM as a result. It's them against the world, fighting the noble fight!
Nice soap opera huh?
LL
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