What is reasonable and what is not?

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I hate anxiety.

Tell me if you would be irritated and left wondering after this.

His daughter(1) wanted a friend to spend the night. He said last night that the two girls and he would spend the night at our house as it was bigger. Ok, fun. The other daughter(2) usually goes to a friends house.

Tonight he tells me that the other daughter(2) and her friends are going to stay at his house and I could have the daughter (1) and her friend at my house. Well, that kind of bugged me. But oh well.

Now he just calls and says that daughter (2) is now staying at a friends house. I said ok, well then are you coming here to be with daughter (1). No, he wants to stay home. WAT! I made a comment like I was shocked. Why is he staying home all alone and I have his daughter and friend?

My mind starts working. Is that so he can talk to or see OW? I know he is not real patient with the kids especially if they have friends, but I am not going to babysit while he sits home alone.

I guess he is coming here, but I can tell he really didn't want to. How are we ever going to truly reconcile if he wants to live in his own house without his family?