Just so you know, your story really does help and gives me a new perspective on this whole ordeal.
I am really so close to just giving up and moving on. Somehow, something always helps me to find the energy/will/compassion to have a bit more patience and give my W another few days or weeks to find herself. Your story is one of those things. Thank you for posting it.
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread