It is only natural that a past relationship would enter your mind as you embark upon a new one -- the similarities and the contrasts are just as striking. But are you letting the past cast too heavy a shadow over your present? You have to see this person for who they are, not for who they are not. Your role in a partnership is something you have to be willing to adjust right now. To keep things progressing, you might have to start being more forceful than you usually are.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
