It's my choice to cook T'giving dinner although I must sound like I am an idiot!!!! I will enjoy the out of town relatives even though they are on H's side. D17 is close to her Grandma. No one but one brother and me know about ow although I know my MIL suspects. H was always better at keeping house cleaned (that is his reason for wanting a divorce---that makes the divorce ALL MY FAULT, of course!)
