Dealing with knowing and not saying anything

[Michael Mc C]

It's very important for the kids to see their parents getting along, regardless of the circumstances. That and the reassurance that they are still loved by both of you and are NOT in any way at fault for what has happened.

Let her have the time with you (and the kids) and just be sure that the time that is spent is quality time - at least as much as can be mustered. Don't fake it. Just try to relax and enjoy it.

Make sure you have plenty of real things in your life to keep you busy so that you won't always be readily available when she decides she needs to spend time.

The kids do make it a little more difficult because, as I said, they need some normalcy in their lives.

Try to relax and enjoy the time with your kids and, if possible, with your wife.