Thanks, Husband. I'm not sweating it. I have the same thoughts myself whenever she unloads this cr*p on me. Including when W mentioned her "opportunities" to be unfaithful over these 16 years -- I was thinking to myself, "So what?!! Me too! You want a reward or something for doing what you are supposed to do anyway when you're married? For doing what you promised to God you would do, to foresake all others, but then you reneged on that promise?" Sheesh! It's no wonder I have teeth holes in my tongue.
Trying, we do what we can do, endure what we can. I am trying to think of my sons first, and she's just making it more difficult. I am at the point where even if by some miracle we were to reconcile our marriage, I think I would still insist on separating our finances. Even now, she is still trying to micromanage my business even when she has abdicated that right.
I got a reply back from the L -- they want a $1500 retainer just for handling the SA -- Ouch!
