RJ I see now that it's emotional distance, and not emotional connection, that gets me more revved up.
Are you saying once you have your H's attention and interest, you lose the HD and head to being more LD? If you can’t get his attention, then you become more HD?
This is what happens to BB and me. I pull away and she gets friendly after about 3 weeks. It sucks! I want it to work the other way.
The more sugar I throw out to BB, the more honey I want her to feeds to me.
So, sometimes you can catch my flies with vinegar.
