They are in the anger stage the first months, as braveH said, you will be blamed for everything, so prepare yourself for that.
She should'nt be harrasing you at work, the CS should be a set amount and that's it, she has no reason to ask you about your paycheck. Don't fall prey to her demands, do stand up for yourself, yea, she'll be angry, but what kind of M would you have with that kind of attitude (hers)
No, she has not thought this out at all, keep that in mind when you listen to her rantings. Don't despair, stay strong.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.