The way you respect other people's privacy is admirable, but it could be limiting your opportunities. Don't be afraid to talk to the people around you about getting what you want -- they're there to help you get things started. Managing your finances is a task that is making its way back onto the agenda big time, and you could get some fresh ideas from some surprising sources today.
there ya go yoyo,
Oh by the way the other "lady" from work wants to go for "happy hour" after work with me. Don't get all excited she is married. If I ever do stray IT WILL NOT BE WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know