As enlightened it may be to be open-minded and accepting of all different ways of doing things, at a certain point in any decision making process, you have to pick one way and go with it. Do not fear that by choosing route you are negating all the others. Today, narrow down your options -- and keep in mind that there's no such thing as 'right' or 'wrong' in this instance. It's just a matter of figuring out what is 'right' for you. People will respect your choice -- they'll have to.
Notice what I high lighted
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
