[quote=mcojh]Please-Don't cry for me. I will survive this. [quote]
I can't help it. I know you will survive but I hate to see another marriage end up this way. I guess I really believe in the committment and what marriage really means and I can't stand it that people (my H included!) take that committment and their marriage vows so lightly.
When and if I meet another woman, I can't be so attached to her.
mc - don't tar us all with the same brush. At the moment you are raw and hurting but when you meet the right woman if you want her to give you her all you got to do the same.
((((HUGS)))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
CW called today. It seems that she went to see a mortgage person to see what she qualifies for in the way of a mortgage. She wants to buy a townhouse. Not sure why, being as her and the ffom are soul mates etc and she is destined to be with him, anyway, the mortgage person told her that she has good credit except for a credit card with a high balance will hurt her chances getting a loan. CW wants me to remove her name from the card. evidently she thinks I just fell off the turnip truck. If I remove her name, the whole debt becomes mine. I asked her if she thought that she wasn't responsible for her share of the debt. She said that she would still pay her share, she just wants it off her credit report........whatever.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
I often wonder where my H would/will decide to live. If he went immediately to live w/ow, that wouldn't be good for "appearances". But, I just can't imagine him doing anything but that..
