saffie, that is an idea. I told h I was going to start forwarding his mail to him at ow's address and he told me absolutely not to. this was a couple of weeks ago, before he finally admitted to living with her, so I had about 5 minutes of hope that he wasn't.
I don't know why he doesn't want his mail forwarded, but I'll keep making the piles for now. only going to rock the boat so much, since he could make things pretty nasty if he wanted to. I need to decide if I'm going to keep paying them, though, or let him write out the checks himself. I'm afraid he's spendy enough as it is, if he is the one writing the checks, I have this fear he will go nuts, since I will no longer be seing things.
and honestly, this will all likely be resolved sooner rather than later.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
