I think my disappointment lies in the fact that sometimes I think I made a poor choice in spouses...I was young and dumb and just assumed he would be my equal when it came to building a life together, because we come from the same background and were so compatible. Guess I was wrong!
I've learned enough to know that no one is perfect, every marriage has challenges, and he has potential to be everything I want and need. He just has to want that too...which is way beyond my control. Yuk. End of complaining.
I know this feeling. I've been there. Sometimes, I think that I married the wrong person. But then I think about all the GOOD things we have together. No couple is perfect. Every R has it's problems. For example, you could look at a couple that seems to get along great, treat each other with respect, have a nice family, but there is no passion or chemistry. Then you could have a couple that can't keep their hands off each other, but they fight like cats and dogs. Every R has something.
Hang in there. I know how you feel.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
