I think that the hardest part of all this is that we used to be each others best friend up until a month ago. Even after she moved out she still considered me her best friend. Now I'm not even sure that I'm considered more than a casual acquaintance. We used to do everything together. Now that's gone. She's always had more friends than I have and the ones that I know that were hers to begin with don't talk to me. I feel like I've lost a lot. She was more than a wife to me.
I understand the best friend part being so hard. My H and I used to be best friends. When we were first married we moved half way across the country for his grad schooling. I made some friends but he never really did anything w/out me. Now he finally has "Friends" but they are female. (his 2 EA's) He actually told me the one is his best friend, so I feel your hurt. I see us slowly becoming friends again, and sharing laughs. I am hoping that it will continue to grow.
I really recommend the solution based C. I just got lucky in that the one I picked was one.
