Believe MLC is the sitch

[missmyfriend]

I think that overall the thing to realize, whether it is MLC or a WAS or something else, the M is in danger. The only thing we can do is to be patient, take care of ourselves, our children, and try to improve the way we are with all people, not just our spouses. If they are meant to be with us (in my beliefs, God is involved), it will happen. If not, there are other plans for us in our lives. Instead of fighting it, like I used to do, I see what happens and make the best of it (at least most of the time).

My sitch is completely insane so it has to be a combo of MLC (I can almost guarantee it) and the issues she has never dealt with (also classic results that lead to MLC). I wish, believe it or not, that my W was not so consistent in believing we are over with. She has nothing to do with me except for the children and that is only every other weekend as it is. It makes it difficult to understand considering we were best friends and she couldn't wait for me to come home from work and she and I would play (go out, just take a drive, walk and hold hands). All of this until 1 1/2 years ago. I am still shaking my head. Except now I just give it up to Him. And enjoy my kids.

doa180, hang in there.