The retrouvaille experience is different than DB. It is not pressure, but it is a class if repairing your marriage in 7 weeks. DB takes an infinite time frame, wait for them to come around. So the two can't really be mixed.
Retrouvaille will continue to teach the philosopy. He can sit there and reject it, but probably he will be giving it some thought. Because by now he sees that they have been right about some things. Probably many things. So it has to make him question whether they might not be right about this too. It's not done in a pressured way though. The presenters are always talking about themselves. It would be the little voice inside him who is saying, "You see, they're right." And you know what, they are right. There's nothing wrong with him sitting in a room and being exposed to the thought. The mind is the biggest aphrodisiac. You get someone into your mind, and you can't stop thinking about them. And before you know it you are proclaiming love. It has nothing to do with the other person. It is all in the lover's mind. It is the lover's choice to put that person in his mind and think about her.
