I like that idea,that everything is a choice. I went to a IC once. She told me that too. She said that taking care of your kids may not feel like a choice, but even that is. Many people don't take care of their kids, so I guess it is a choice, even if it doesn't feel like one to me.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread