When you don't feel sexual, having sex is, well, just not important. And it's hard to get that anyone else would want it. Underneath, I did feel like something was wrong with me, esp because we live in such a sexual society, but to truly work on this problem was overwhleming. Much easier to shut it off.

This is soooo how I felt and I must say that at times I still do. It's so much easier now that we have "reconnected" if you will for me to turn it back on, but yes, the switch does still get shut off. FWIW.

Update: I went to bed last nite and took you all with me! I could hear PS's voice of " just do it", Cemar's "show him desire", Corri's " it's about emotional connection", IC's "lumpy HSA's can have fun", etc. And you know what...it was a really wonderful nite!

LOL, I'm sure IC will be thrilled to learn that he was involved in his first orgy \:D ...At least it better be his first...and only {Miss IC, rolling up her sleeves and fixing to beat IC's ass}

Good for you Journey, good for you. We all love you too \:\)