Cemar, I don't think you are able to understand how being LD feels, much in the same way that I didn't understand how being HD feels, until I suddenly had those feelings. I am wondering if you ever experienced a period of time where you weren't sexual, like maybe if you had an illness, or a death in the family, etc. When you don't feel sexual, having sex is, well, just not important. And it's hard to get that anyone else would want it. Underneath, I did feel like something was wrong with me, esp because we live in such a sexual society, but to truly work on this problem was overwhleming. Much easier to shut it off.
PS, Thank you for your continued support.
Update: I went to bed last nite and took you all with me! I could hear PS's voice of " just do it", Cemar's "show him desire", Corri's " it's about emotional connection", IC's "lumpy HSA's can have fun", etc. And you know what...it was a really wonderful nite!
