NOP, I feel that my H deifitely had issues with pride, image and entitlement. They are still there, but he has been able to show me time and again that he is working on this. That is a good thing.

I want to ask you a question, which may seen facetious or sarcastic, but I am serious ( I know you know that, but others may not). If these people are so image conscious, why do they have an affair with someone who is, let's shall we say, image-challenged?