Hi everyone,,, H has had a few bumps in the road. But I am doing well and I do not allow myself to feel like it is somehow my fault. It is Finally feeling like it may just be ok.I am stonger than ever and have such peace of mind! Take care everyone and GOD BLESS YOU ALL! I love you all and think about you often! Alicia
Alimari, I think one of the keys to our success is KNOWING that there WILL be bumps in the road... that even when things feel like they're smooth sailing, we get a wave or two crashing down. But it's how we choose to ride those waves that determines our own succss and happiness -- wheter in our M or just as individuals.
One thing I had said to my H about a month ago is that I know that when things are good, they're good. But what I'm nervous about is how we handle things when they're rocky.
Anyway, glad to hear your positive attitude.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
Great to hear from you. Glad things are going well. There's definately going to be bumps in the road. That's life. Keep up your fantastic attitude. God Bless you too!
Love,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
WOW, IT feels like it has been forever that I have posted and I have thought of you all often and I am so glad to report I am doing Fabulous!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a new Job and have been working there for @ 2 months and my Boss just loves me. I work at a high end Salon/Spa and I have a lot of fun there. I really enjoy doing facials, Also they recently asked me to pose/model for a "Couples Massage" photo and it is going to run all weeekend in my Local News paper,, my H was actually ok with it!! ( huge 180 for him).
There obviously are still many bumps and some days none at all,
......and in early December he told me he is so glad to have me in his life and that he truly loves me,,, he reduced me to tears and he even said he could feel he is changing and growing. Another Miracle!!!!
I spent three weeks with him and our kids in Mexico and it was awesome....... will post more @ that later also.
I will try to post more soon and start to journal my life again, so in the meantime I just wanted to say HI!!!!! to you all.
And give thanks again to this Website and the book and all of you for Saving My life..... I am still a work in progress and everyday I realize how much more work there is to do and struggle sometimes just to stop and catch my breath and let go and KNOW it will be ok. I do believe I am stronger now, and that I am going to do just fine. BUT, my H still seems to go back and forth with his strength. and that at times is very unsettling but onward and forward... life is to precious to dwell.
God bless... Ali
P.S. I looked for your thread COG and could find you, I hope you are doing Fabulous too!
So great to hear from you. You kill me! What a great attitude you have, and you got yourself a life. Nice going, I'm so proud of you.
I'm doing great also. Still sex deprived, but not starving. I have a great life and I'm very thankful for what I have. Life is good! I need to start up another thread to do some journaling also.
Take care and keep in touch.
Love,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
~Thanks Cog, you are a sweetheart as always. I will be going out of town on Sunday but hope to post before I leave. I am so glad to see you are doing well! I will post more when the kids are in bed... God Bless... Ali
awww, so glad to hear you are doing so well! what a blessing you've worked so hard for your M, beyond my capacity to understand and now you are happy, congrats hon))))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Ali, Good to hear from you. The thing that I've realized is that it's all a work in progress. Our Ms are a work in progress and our own personal journies are a work in progress. There will be good days and bad. But when you look at the big picture, as long as you see it progressing then that's a good thing.
Anyway, glad to hear an update from you.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
Hello everyone and thanks for thinking of me and saying hi!
My Goal this year is to really focus on my M even more and myself and my Family.. in the end that is all that matters is Family. Whether it be big or small or just MOM or just DAD or both Parents.... whatever way , love and Family are all that matters. I look back and remember the pain often and remember I need to keep moving forward and trying my best and to stop living in regret and keep growing.
My H told me the other that he loves me deeply and that he knows I love him but I am still holdong back and not showing him all my love...... I can tell him I love him 'til I am blue in the face but he feels like I need to show more love physically, hugging, pulling him in for a kiss etc . etc....
and he says that if he is vulnerable with me I may eat him for lunch!?
~well he talked a very long time about the subject and did not use those exact words but you get what I mean.
So my objective is to find my way in and let him know yeah I love you too!I need to get the 5 love languages again, his is PT for sure. MY copy of that book is missing here at my house? Anyway, I keep working on me and this year I also intend to work even harder on me than last year. I will post more when I get back, I will be out of town for a week or so. Love and God Bless You All, Ali
for a "Couples Massage" photo and it is going to run all weeekend in my Local News paper,, my H was actually ok with it!! ( huge 180 for him).
