Just take it slowly....no matter what he says he is still trying and that a good thing...He is obviously very confused...the sad thing is he wants bells and whistles love, but at this stage after all this time, the love is deeper, and he needs to see that! I think its a good idea to talk to the presenters, but the generally want to talk to you both. But it might help him to hear from them directly!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!