After reading here I believe that my WAW is in MLC
I will be up front with you. I don't like a quick jump to MLC. I have looked at those MLC questionnaires and it is just too easy to make the leap. Also, I see people here blaming MLC and I can see that thier spouse are the same, old people they always have been. The other problem is that it keep you from really looking at yourself. If she is in MLC, she is nuts. She doesn't know what she is doing. So with that, you never really get to find the root cause. And having been to the lowest place only to return, I still found out things about myself years later.
In regards to the resume, she reacted poorly. I don;t know why she couldn't just say no, but tyhen, it was probably taken as you setting her up. Let it go.
Now, to the big thing. How do you really expect to heal a marriage when you are five states away? What can you do about this?
