Hi, guys ... Well, I've had bad vibes the last few days. I know my H spends time with OW, but I didn't know to what extent. He said he was not sleeping with her anymore. I know, I know, WAS are masters of deception. I caught him in a small lie the other day (concerning OW) and since then, my suspicions have been mounting.
Also, he has not used our debit card AT ALL for over 3 weeks now. That just raised red flags right in front of my face. He has his own credit card and must be using that. It seems like he is hiding something.
Well, he just called me and asked if I got an email from OW. I did. This is what she sent me:
Look in the passenger window of his work truck! Under Minnie Mouse, no, on top, of Minie m ouse,. WE were together that night. He has to make HIS decisions, as to YOU, or ME,by DECEMBER 15, 2007. After that date, he is YOURS, or, MINE. He will always be [daughters] as far as I'm concerned, I only wonder about ME, or YOU! Sincerely [OW]
Not sure what is under the stuffed toy in his work truck. But he has been with her when he told me he would not be. Actually, I'm not as crushed as I thought I would be. Perhaps because I had my suspicions. I think I'm more pissed of that he was still lying to me!!!
I guess she has given him an ultimatum ... decide between her or me by Dec. 15. I think she must have been drinking last night because she kept calling the house. I was not home but D saw the calls come through. H was not home either. D finally answered after the 3rd time and OW mumbled something about a wrong number. Stupid B!tch -- hasn't she ever heard of caller ID!!!
I just talked to H about this and he did admit to sleeping with her. I asked if he enjoyed it (sorry, was too pissed). He said he mostly sat around working on his computer. He also said he was trying to keep peace with her because he needs her for his upcoming court case. (That was already in my thoughts.)
He also said very sincerely before we hung up ILY. That took me back a few seconds. He's said ILY in response to my ILYs lately (which have just been a couple times -- didn't want to go overboard) but I felt like it was just an auto response. This was sincere.
I got in to work early today and up to this point was extremely productive. Now I feel like the entire day is shot!
One question for everyone ... SHOULD I EMAIL HER BACK!?!?
