Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues

Sometimes I just want to ask her a barrage of questions. What the h*ll happened to the woman I married? Has she ever really been true, or was she just a fabrication? Has she been this way secretly for all these years and just hid it well?



NOC,

I ask myself these same questions. And since the was screwing her XBF I wonder if she was just trying to get back at him by marring me.

Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues


In defending her reasons for killing our marriage she claims it was not the A that led her to this -- how can I be sure?



Don't sweat this, It is true that the affair did not lead HER to screwing up your marriage.
But it sure helped you decide it was screwed up.
but if you refure back to quote #1 then this does not matter anyway

Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues



She's lied about so much else. And she's also said that she was never unfaithful with me until recently, even though she's "had plenty of opportunities" (as she's put it) -- is this really true? ?


BIG DEAL, WE ALL HAVE HAD "OPPORTUNITIES" But some of use honored our wedding vows
She is most likley saying this to hurt you.


Husband

Last edited by husband; 11/09/07 11:54 AM.

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know