I sent the L an email this evening, asking for a quote of drafting up a Separation Agreement.
I am too tired to go into any great detail, but I had a "conversation" with my W over finances. She's perturbed at me for how I handled our joint account, and I so I realize I must, for my own sanity, get her name off of that account, pronto! The financial disagreements always lead into an R talk, and I should know better.
Wow, she can be such a pain! She is so disrespectful. I know that, ultimately, my own well-being should have no dependency on her, but why does she think that I have to be in a no-win situation for her to be happy?
Sometimes I just want to ask her a barrage of questions. What the h*ll happened to the woman I married? Has she ever really been true, or was she just a fabrication? Has she been this way secretly for all these years and just hid it well? In defending her reasons for killing our marriage she claims it was not the A that led her to this -- how can I be sure? She's lied about so much else. And she's also said that she was never unfaithful with me until recently, even though she's "had plenty of opportunities" (as she's put it) -- is this really true? How am I to know? Had she actually been unfaithful all along. And what is really going on inside her head when she talks to our S's when I am not there?
