Amy- I just read your post over on dar's thread. I can't believe the courage it took to put that all out there (I know there are other snippets I've read, but all that in one place!).
I really hope things work out for you, your husband, and your kids. I hope he can get healthy, and stop the drinking, again. I think it is getting really close to time for you to move back in. I know there isn't a lot of space, but there's got to be a way to make it work. He needs you, and your kids need both of you, together.