Amy, after reading your thread, I can tell the ow will never be able to shine your shoes. I can't help believe that even in that foggy mind of your Hs that he doesn't know somehow that he is making a mistake.
Blessings.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God