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Hey tal,

Sorry to hear about your day. Mine was good. I went to the Doctor and he told me that they had to "tye" the mesh inside me to my bone and that the scar tisue is what is probaly causing me the pain. He said it should go away. If not he can give me a steroid shot.
Also the DB meeting we are having seems to be a go. It will be wierd actualy meeting people from the board that know about my stich and be able to talk about it.
Also the "no more mr nice guy" book came today so I have some reading to do.

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And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know
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Sending my best regards, husband.

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Me: 49
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Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
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Hey No code,

Is it true nothing could be finer that to be in Carolina??

Husband

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Growing up is optional

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H,

Let me know how the book is.. and the meeting.. sounds good.

Like the growing old and and growing up comment.. although my H doesn't know how to grow up yet.

tal


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Tal,

the book is kind of directed towards men. It is funny because on the way to the doctors today I heard on the radio that "boys" are having problems nowadays because they are not alowed to be "boys". the are told t o sit still and not move around and be quiet. Aparantly it is easyier for "girls" to sit still and be quiet than boys and this supression of their activies is going to affect them later on in life

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Originally Posted By: husband
Is it true nothing could be finer that to be in Carolina??


I wish.

We've been here for 11 years, after having lived in the Seattle area, and Mississippi before that. (Never realized how much it actualy rains in the NW until we moved here. Carolina Blue skies is a stark contrast to 300 days/year overcast.)

I have enjoyed living here -- and thought I loved it -- until the bomb. Now I want us all to get as far away from OM and his family as possible, leave the state entirely if need be. W won't hear of it, as expected.


Me: 49
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Nocode,
I will let ya know how tis book is. All of the other books I have read was basicly about affairs and how to "fix" your marrige. this one is about men fixing themselves No wait that did not come out right. It's about men fixing the way of thinking. to understand why they do things..

husband

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Good morning, Husband. I hope you have another great day \:\)

I'm an Aries, btw. \:\)


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"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
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Hey Nep,

I am trying my hardest today to make it a good one.

My reading today had more to do with business that R

But...... Aries

Daily Extended Forecast for November 09, 2007

Someone in your family has been going through a life change that has caused you to look at yourself differently. Embrace the educational opportunities the experience offers, and try not to get too caught up in the emotions of it all. Your ties with your family have been looser than you may like, but they are tightening more and more as each day goes by. Make a plan to get together and tell old embarrassing stories. Remind yourself how much fun it can be to laugh until you cry.


Have a great day

Husband

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My day did not start out very well. When I was at the doctor’s yesterday one of the "ladies" at work that I was going to meet with after work for drinks got laid off. So the happy hour is canceled.
Too bad because I told the woman I live with (she used to be my wife)that I would go over her mom's and do some more work on her floor if I did not have too much to drink because I was meeting with some people after work.

I am excited and nervous about the "Sonoma Meeting"

Husband


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