I'm glad you're feeling more at peace, Amy.

There's a difference between "not NEEDING him to come back",and "not WANTING him to come back".

Finding a place where you dont NEED him to come back, can be healthy to both you and your marriage at the same time.

I dont think you have to feel guilty, about enjoying the peace for a while.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle