Hey Safie, My son and I have been hooked on watching "Most Haunted" It's a show about haunted places mostly around England. The lady in the show is a dig bat though. She is always screaming or scared. My son said is she does not like getting scared she should find a new line of work
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
good morning H, Saffie. Please share what book you are referring to? I haven't heard from H since yesterday's texts. I never responded to his. I would like to run my plan by the both of you. My C and I came up with it yesterday.
I will be polite but cool. Act AS IF. If he asks about the money, I will say I understand but this is the decision I have had to make. If he says he needs money, I will sympathetically state he may need to consider getting a job. If he starts getting angry, I will politely say I need to go.
If he calls about seeing the kids, I am to say, well, we may need to come up with a visitation agreement. If he wants to come home, I am to politely say I don't think that would be a good idea at this time considering the circumstances.
The C wants him to get the idea that until he starts making some changes that his home life is cut off from him. That he is not going to have both and that he needs to examine himself. If I don't fight with him and am polite he will have to start looking at himself.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
This sounds GREAT. BUT........... CAN YOU STICK TO IT????? that is your next chalange. I know it is hard. I keep changing directions myself. But you need to give a plan a chance before you try something else.
Hope you stay on course with this because is sounds like the right thing to do. (don't really know the right way to tell him "I will sympathetically state he may need to consider getting a job". No mater what I come up with it still sounds sarcastic.
Good luck Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
lol. I know what you mean H. But...that man has WAY too much time on his hands. He stays up till 1, 2 in the morning playing online games b/c he has nothing to get up in the morning for. Sad huh?
I will just say in a calm voice "you might have to consider getting a job, I'm sorry". Of course he is going to get argumentive at which time I'm going to say I need to go now.
It's been hard for me in the past but I have had it. What he did to me this last week was totally reprehensible. He totally played me and I'm done with his games. Until he makes changes...Im done.
He tells me how hard HE has tried to work it when he's still contacting HER. He tells me all week how much he loves me but then on Tuesday he tells me that he loves me as a person and as a friend but isn't In Love with Me? What a load of crap. Well, the gravy train just ended. He just hit his brick wall with me.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
