thanks Ellie, I appreciate your imput on everything. Yeah, I'm going to a divorce seminar next week. I've already got a list started of all the questions I need answers for. Your's are definitely on my list!!!
He's already told me that I can leave with the kids to visit my family. But I will also have it in writing before I leave. He's made threats before. When I left for a week, he said he called the police and reported our van stolen (it's only in his name) and that they issued an amber alert because I didn't contact him. He, of course, was bluffing. I told him the state police wanted to know what county the alert was issued in and he flipped out because I called them.
He came to his senses when I was gone a week before. But I wasn't gone long enough. He probably will do it again but I honestly don't know if he'll mean it then either.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!