donna, any chance you might let them have thanksgiving with their dad this year then? if you think the kids would have more fun there this year, and it is part of tradition, it might be easier for them. then maybe you could start a new tradition with them, for the years you don't have them, that could be a great time. maybe do a special thing wedn night with them.
this all has to be so hard for the kids, it really upsets me more than anything what my kids are dealing with. that's one thing h and I are doing pretty good about, trying to bend over backwards to make sure they are okay. I guess I just hate the way that sounded...that you got to them before h got to them. I am not judging, please don't think I am. written out, it feels like it comes across that way. feel free to tell me to stfu, okay?
about the db coach, not quite sure I understand that, but good luck and I hope you let us know what you guys say, if that's possible. I guess I feel so hopeless about my own situation, I wonder if a db coach sees cause for hope even when things are so far gone.
take care. ((((HUGS)))
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