I've Been Served :(

[mcojh]

Well here CW called this AM and here is the call:

Me:Hello
CW:Hi, are you still planning to come with tonight?
(We were supposed to go to the local mall for Santa's arrival.)
Me: No
CW:Oh, why not? I told S6 about it and he is excited to go.
Me:I don't feel like going.
CW:Well if you change your mind let me know.
Me:Ok
CW:Bye
Me:Bye, click

WTF!!!!! Does she really think that after serving me yesterday I am going to want to hang out with her????? I don't get her.

[Dr LOve]

why not? I told S6 about it and he is excited to go.

MCC,

Need I say more? It is not about her it's about S6. He will not belive in Santa much longer. (if he still does) but it's a fact he will NEVER be 6 agian

husband

[mcojh]

Hubby-

I just can't do it. I am just raw with emotion and I need to distance myself from her. I can't get into a car with her and act like nothing is wrong. I explained to S16 why I wasn't going. I need to detach and to take care of MC. At some point I have to begin to move on I need to begin to walk the journey, as lonely as it will be initially, I need time and space for myself. The kids need to know that this "family time" is going to have to end and we are now two families. I would never do anything to hurt my kids. I didn't make the decision to divorce. I will take care of my kids and myself. When and if I meet another woman, I can't be so attached to her.

I can't.....I just can't

[Heartbroken]

MC,

I just read your post and lost another tiny piece of my broken heart. I remember posting to you and Theo and Lovely Olive since last Feb. and I am so so sorry that it has come down to this - I am welling up with tears right now.

You did everything you could and gave it more than a lot of people ever do - be proud of the high road you took. You will be fine and in a much better place than you have been for far to long. CW is purely insane and I doubt she realizes what she is losing in a friend - someday she will regret it but then it will be to late.

I understand the no Santa thing at what point does the family thing end???? You need to take care of you first so you can be there 100% for your sons.

If my H does not get his head out of his A$$ I may be down the same sad road - but then I figure I want a man that WANTS me to love me not to be there out of a sense of duty. God has his plans for all of us and we need to have trust in him...

You are in my thoughts and prayers...

HB

[lovelyolive]

I remember posting to you and Theo and Lovely Olive since last Feb. and I am so so sorry that it has come down to this - I am welling up with tears right now.

I know.. I sat in my car and cried at lunch today. Tears for MC and tears for all of us

[SueS]

Thanks Sara.....after it is all final, I am planning a cross country DB chick tour.

Hi MC- I'm sorry to hear of your news. I also apologize that I haven't been so up-to-date on your thread. But I wanted to tell you that if you decide to do the DB Chick Tour, you can pick me up as you head out of town. I live right around St. Paul. I would love to meet all the ladies that have held me up these past few months when I was ready to drop!

Have a good evening.

SueS

[mcojh]

Please-Don't cry for me. I will survive this.

CW just called again and told me that S16 had changed his mind and wasn't going with to the mall. She was, "just checking" to see if I changed my mind.

I said no, (yeah for me). She then said, " did you really think I wouldn't be giving those papers?" I simply replied, "no I just thought that the way you did it was pretty sh!tty." She said that she didn't know how to do it and she felt this was best. (I guess she thinks that is the best way to do it???) She apologized and I accepted it syaing again I thought it was a lousy thing to do.

I need to go work out and clear my head. I spent the day with two friends making venison sausage. We laughed so hard my ribs hurt. I learned what an upper decker was. It felt good to do that. I told these two friends about being served and it was great to have them support me.

[mcojh]

Sue-

We must be neighbors.

[fightingirish]

mc,

You will survive this , but I am sad for you. Our S's will never appreciate what we could give them, they just take things for grantite.

Thinking of you.

Tal

[Aud31]

My thoughts are with you as well MC.

It's pretty amazing how cold she was/is about this. CW is an understatement.

((hugs))