Let her coldness roll right away. Act as if. Beat her at her own game. Be polite but detached. Don't let her see you sweat Wasn't that a deoderant commercial?
Anyway...Even if you feel like you can't breathe and you are having cardiac arrest. Look at those great kids and their smiling faces and then head out as quickly and calmy as possible. Head off for a night of fun and quality time with your children. Easier said than done but hopefully they will keep your mind off the other stuff. Not sure what your plans but I hope its something that will make you all smile...
Hang in there. Good thing you are in Texas...you know how to take the bull by the horns and hang on for the bumpy ride. Okay so maybe not all Texans are cowboys but a gal can dream right?
Take care.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.