What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Thanks Jak....Its so strange how I trusted this man a couple of years ago with my and my kids life. Now, how things have changed. We are both so different. I used to never worry what he was doing or who he was talking to. What a difference a year makes.

BTW, what do you think about my post a few above about the 'well meaning' friends that are always the voice of doom and gloom? I totally understand what exdh did for an entire year was horrible and by alot of others standards unforgiveable, but to constantly look for the bad just drives me crazy.