Yeah Craig, I'm good at being hard on myself. I second-guess myself a lot when it comes to H because of past mistakes and feeling like I just don't know what his reactions will be at any given moment. But when it comes to my son, the protective bear comes out in me and that will not change, although my presentation might, but not my strong value for it.
Yep it was definitely for me, and I know it surprised him a little. But damn did it feel good. lol
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
I second-guess myself a lot when it comes to H because of past mistakes and feeling like I just don't know what his reactions will be at any given moment. But when it comes to my son, the protective bear comes out in me and that will not change, although my presentation might, but not my strong value for it. 
